Wild deer dream - Daughters and jealous mothers

Daughters and jealous mothers

Dream in nutshell: in a small place of the house, deer were running amok, they wanted to break themselves free.

Short interpretation: some mothers don’t want the best to their daughters. They want to keep them under control, even in their adult life. But the daughters want to break free. It is better to be free with the Lord, than under control, under iron yoke with your mother. You are born to be free.

I have received this dream on 16th of November, 2019. (Actually I have received two dreams from the Lord in one night. This only one of them. The other one is a new story, the two dreams are not related to each other).

Longer version of my dream:

My parents has a big house (which is destroyed by a hurricane and football-sized hailstorm in an other dream). Despite a big house, the kitchen is quite small, around 2 meters wide x 2 meters in length.

Inside in that kitchen, two deer were running amok. They wanted to set themselves free. They were so wild, they were running around and jumping higher and higher. My sister and I were inside, and we tried to escape from the wild deer. We tried to escape by climbing upwards. But the deer were jumping and running continuously, so passionately, that sometimes they touched the side walls with their backs.

In a corner of the room nearby mother was sitting, watching us, following us with her eyes, looked offended because of us.  

Explanation:

When you have a dream from the Lord, it usually has many-many layers. Sometimes you receive some explanation right away, and some more explanation weeks, months or years later.

A kitchen used to be a heart of the house, a housewife favorite place. But at my parents house, in my childhood, the kitchen was a cold place, because it was not used too often, and the mother is a not-so-good housewife.

So the heart of a toxic family is a cold place. The deer perceived the heart of the toxic family as a prison and wanted to set free themselves. They were running around to find an escape. The deer are the daughter’s souls. The daughter’s souls don’t like the captivity, they seek freedom.

Lord says about the deer in the Bible:

He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he causes me to stand on the heights. Psalm 18:33

The other:

As the deer pants for streams of water,
    so my soul pants for you, my God.
My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.
    When can I go and meet with God?
My tears have been my food
    day and night,
while people say to me all day long,
    “Where is your God?”
These things I remember
    as I pour out my soul:
how I used to go to the house of God
    under the protection of the Mighty One^[d]
with shouts of joy and praise
    among the festive throng.

Why, my soul, are you downcast?
    Why so disturbed within me?
Put your hope in God,
    for I will yet praise him,
    my Savior and my God.

 Psalms 42

Deer represent freedom and souls.

If you grew up in a toxic family, sometimes you don’t see the exit door, even if it’s open, because the fear blinds your eyes. Your soul is similar to a scared deer. If you fear, you don’t use your common sense and you don’t see the open door. A jealous mother use fear to control you. Jealous mothers don’t want to let you go, especially the daughters.

Jesus Christ has interesting family values. He doesn’t like toxic families.

Jesus said, in Luke 12: Do you think I came to bring peace on earth? No, I tell you, but division. From now on there will be five in one family divided against each other, three against two and two against three. They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.”

Interestingly my brother was not in the dream, because usually the jealous mothers want to control only their daughters. Controlling and manipulating mothers are behaving terrible in secret, when nobody sees them. These kind of moms are creating a cult within their family, when you have to „respect” the mother-god, even if she is treating you badly in secret.

It is almost impossible to please your jealous mother. It is easier to please God. Pleasing your jealous mother destroys your soul.

Jesus says:

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”  

Matthew 11:28-30

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Better to have a life under the control of Jesus.

As Jesus said, he will set division between fathers and sons as well. The fathers usually want to control their sons (not their daughters). Some father saying bad things about their sons and about their sons’s plans, because some of them want bad things for them. Or they giving them bad advice.

Toxic families and countries will be divided:

 “Every kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and every city or household divided against itself will not stand. (Matthew 12)

Toxic mom steals your precious belongings and gave those as gifts to others. Maybe you will not inherit at all, if you have a jealous mom. Check the Jennifer Aniston story.

Jealous moms want to hurt you financially as well.

But you not have to afraid, Jesus gives you new mothers and new family, gives you everything, provide you financially, even if your family wanted to harm you:

Mark 10;  “Truly I tell you,” Jesus replied, “no one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age: homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children and fields—along with persecutions—and in the age to come eternal life. But many who are first will be last, and the last first.”